New Decade Goals should include putting away songs, shows, and other media that disrespect our mothers, sisters, aunts, daughters, and grandchildren. Indirectly, the same media undermines the legitimacy our fathers, brothers, uncles, and sons. We do not want our songwriters and performers to lose their edge or creativity. But we do demand a greatness in our art beyond any genocidal, suicidal, empty messages. The words and imagery are either death or life.